This post is difficult to write for me, because I always pride myself on trying to maintain my apperance to the best of my abilities, and I realized that an area where I totally failed is my hair.
Yes, that’s right, I’m admitting it. A couple of posts ago, a few commenters mentioned that my hair was looking a little “bottom heavy” (I had never heard that expression before, but I knew what they meant.) One of them commented “maybe it’s time for a change.” Well, they were right, it is.
Typically, I take criticisms with a grain of salt, but this one really got to me because as much as I wanted to deny it, I knew it was true.
For the last few months, every time I’ve blown out my hair, I’ve noticed that my ends are pouffy, frizzy, frazzled. I have more split ends than I can count. My hair, despite all of my efforts just ends up “hanging there.” It’s long, it’s heavy, it’s blah. Sure, I wanted long hair, but the price I’m paying for it just doesn’t seem worth it.
Now, before I delve further into this, I want to relay to my lovely readers that this isn’t at all my hairdresser’s fault. He is brilliant but I limit him when it comes to cutting because I am so afraid to lose my length that I’ve spent over three years growing (my hair is like the slowest growing hair ever.) My micro-trims just aren’t cutting it anymore, no pun intended.
I still want to have long hair, but I need to do something…more layers, a little more of my ends snipped off, the front pieces cut shorter…I need SOMETHING that is going to get my hair out of this rut.
I’m going too wait until after my vacation to make the cut. I just feel like since I’ll be exposing my hair to so much sun and salt water etc, that it probably isn’t the best idea to do it before I leave for vacation.
So I have almost a month to find pictures of haircuts and styles I like.
Here are a few I like right now:
No matter how many times or which hairdresser I’ve ever been too, none can seem to cut my hair exactly like Carrie’s (above), minus the bangs. I absolutely love how bouncy and shapely her hair looks.
I love Jennifer Garner’s hair in this pic. It just looks really full and bouncy. I like the way it’s parted too.Cheryl Cole is definitely one of my favorite hair inspirations. It looks like she’s got a bunch of layers through her hair and some shorter face-framing layers. Like I said before, I grew my face framing layers out so long, that they don’t really frame anymore, they just hang. Ugh.
Here’s another one of Cheryl. I just like how full and bouncy her hair is and how much volume she has. I also like it when you can tell where layers start and end. I feel like my hair just all blends together into one big curtain right now.
Sigh. Blake Lively. I love this pic from her Marie Claire photo shoot. Her hair just looks perfect and voluminous and has texture to it. Maybe I just don’t have enough texture going on or I need to try different products. I would love it if I could make my hair look like this. Love.
Ladies, if you have any suggestions for me, I’m open. If you have any styles you think would suit me, please post a link in the comments below (nothing short though, I don’t want to go into shock!)
My hair is definitely my security blanket…but it might be time to let go and just have an actual style to my hair. I also want to start styling it wavy again, I miss that sometimes.
I always feel bad because people tell me how much they like my hair…but trust me, it doesn’t always look great! I’ve gotten lazy in maintaining it, and its lost its shape, luster and volume.
Thanks for listening to my rant. All thoughts and opinions welcome (unless they involve a serious chop!)