I need to stop shopping. As good, responsible and sale-hungry as I am, I just need to stop shopping. I have everything I need at this point. I broke my Jessica Simpson heels a few weeks ago at work. I tripped on a rug and flew forward out of my shoes which cause the inner and outer side of the shoes to get little slits in them that are now full-on rips so they fall off of my feet.
I tried to find shoes yesterday but I didn’t find any I liked. I went to Memorial City mall today and Macy’s had lots of shoes on sale so I got one classic black pump (Jessica Simpson) and a pair of Michael Kors Sandals that I’ve been in love with forever and were finally on sale. At least you could say I needed new shoes. I also had my new watch size-adjusted when I was there! yay!
I actually only own about 10 pairs of shoes total. This doesn’t include old grungy flats I don’t wear or flip-flops. But maybe 8-10 actual heels/dressier shoes. For someone who loves fashion so much, you’d think I’d be more into shoes (and handbags) but I actually own very little of both. I don’t even own one designer bag. I just get something that looks designer-esque at Aldo and call it a day. I do love purses, but I can never bring myself to pay so much for one. I do really love Michael Kors purses, so I might watch out for some of the styles I like to go on sale.
I promised my husband (and myself) no more shopping for at least 2 weeks. The thing is, it’s not about the money. It’s about treating shopping like a hobby instead of a once-in-awhile treat. I think I’d rather shop less often and feel like I really scored some great stuff than shop every Saturday like it’s part of my weekly routine. I don’t always buy a lot of things or expensive things, but I just need to focus on accomplishing some of my other goals and use my weekends to do that.
I’d like to start running in Memorial Park, for example. I could do that on a Saturday or Sunday instead of shopping, right?
Right.
Here are the lovely shoes:
And the Michael Kors (oh zippers, how I love you:)
I think both pairs will take me through spring/summer. I usually wear closed-toe shoes in the fall/winter and then open toe in the spring/summer, but if I have meetings with some of our more corporate clients, I like to have closed-toes on hand for that.
I also stopped by at Forever 21 because I had a gift card. I bought one shirt and a tank. The shirt is actually super awesome, and I’m so glad I saw it before almost leaving empty-handed. Once again, I wasn’t that impressed with the selections at Forever 21. I think right now the seasons are transitioning and it’s just a mish-mash of stuff.
It fits super great and the ruffles on the sleeve are the perfect touch to the otherwise simple tee. Marie Claire magazine has “ruffles” listed as a top Spring 2010 trend, so I think I’m OK to continually buy stuff with ruffles everywhere. (OMG I hope ruffles never go out of style. sigh.) It’s a size small and cost $17.50.
I also picked up this purple tank for $4.50. It fits cute. Perfect for the gym. I bought it without trying it on first, so as soon as I got home I threw it on and was impressed with the fit.
Speaking of the gym/workout wear. I am obsessed with Victoria’s Secret “The Lacie” panties. OMG. I stopped wearing thongs when the whole boy undie/cheeky craze began (even Cosmo Mag recently declared “The Thong is Over”) but let me tell you, The Lacie is not your typical thong. It is the most comfortable one you will ever wear. I absolutely love them and picked up 3 more today. They actually work perfectly under all pants, especially workout pants, you can’t detect them at all. I know its weird because they are “sexy” thongs…but I see them as more functional than anything else and wear them to work out. They come in super-cute bright colors too. I believe I heard that they are supposed to be a cheaper version of the “Hanky-Panky” lace thongs.
So that’s it…for awhile, I hope.
Do you own a lot of shoes and handbags? I know a lot of women just love to have a lot of shoes…I just try to find ones that are fairly classic so they’ll look good with lots of different outfits. Let me know below!
xoxo,
Veronika.
Shannon says
OMG – aren't Lacies the best undies EVER?!?! My hubby thinks I'm nutso for wearing a thong while I work out, but I seriously can't even tell I'm wearing undies, let alone a thong. I recently went on a 2 month shopping hiatus, as I was starting to treat it like a hobby too – and I feel great! Now when I buy something, it's only something I really, REALLY want, and I enjoy it that much more. I also enjoy shopping that much more too, since it's not an every-week occurrence. 🙂 Good luck!
Kinsey Michaels says
Those Michael Kors shoes are HOT HOT! The zipper detailing really makes the shoe 🙂 It's funny, I used to be a "tops" girl – I'd have like 100 shirts, but only 5 pairs of shoes. I've since gotten really into shoes 🙂 It's fun having a few different pairs. I'm just like you though, I refuse to spend a lot of money on them, so I like to pick up cute pairs on sale. And I totally agree with you about F21. The past two times I went in there, I saw things I LIKED, but didn't LOVE enough to get.
xo
Olivea says
Love the Michael Kors shoe! I have a pretty similar pair from Chinese Laundry.
Andi says
I was just thinking the same thing today V! (as I spent 5 hours at the mall). Shopping is totally my hobby, I definitely need to put more time and energy into all of the other hobbies I have as well. I do have a *few* more things on my Spring/Summer wish list, but you're right, I have everything (and more) that I need. And that's after recently donating 12 bags of clothes and shoes. I think I am a pretty responsible shopper too, but I just don't *need* anything at this point. I am totally a handbag girl though, but haven't bought one in probably 2 years because I love all the ones I have and never want anything else! I definitely splurge on those because I keep them forever and use them every day.
TheThingAboutDaisies says
I'd be one of those women who own A LOT of shoes and when I say a lot I mean crazy amounts (as in I do a blog every Monday on a pair of shoes I own). I love unique looking shoes. Be it the material, color or overall feel. I love using shoes as an accessory ,they allow me to totally change the look and feel of an outfit.
I guess you could say I own a few purses too, but I tend not to have too many when it comes to everyday purses, I tend to buy more in the clutch size. I honestly buy most of mine at TJ Maxx. All I really care about is if they look good and feel good (I have a thing for good leather).
Mere says
The lacie is AWESOME. I have them in every color and wear them EVERY day seriously! The best ever. Spread the news—they are the best!
BabyBurns says
I am SO with you on the shoes! I am very practical and only buy classic styles that I can wear with pretty much anything. I'm a teacher, so I'm on my feet all day and I find that wedges are perfect…they give me some height but are SOOO comfy and work well with my longer pants. I know what you mean about shopping, wait until you have a kid, unfortunately it gets worse (especially if you have a girl….GOODNESS!!) I try (TRY) to only have one shopping day a month where I just grab my gal and we shop til we drop. I look forward to it every month and hope to continue the tradition as she gets older 🙂
[email protected] says
burns- OMG I cannot even imagine if i have a girl one day…that will taking shopping to the next level!
Stephie says
I'm a shoe addict. I have shoes that I've not worn once… it's bad. The past few months, however, I've really been extremely frugal with my spending not only to save but also to rediscover things I already have. I just need one pair of comfy shoes and a pair of summer heels, and I'll be good for the warmer weather! I wish I liked the lacie (I actually have the purple and leopard print one), but they are a tad too big 🙁 They're just so darn cute!! DH and I ran in Memorial Park with the pups during the cooler months when we lived near that area. The summers are just too hot to jog outside for me. I usually workout in the evenings, and it's usually still so hot and humid! We loved it during the 70 degree days, though. You should definitely try it!!
A says
I LOVE shoes and I definitely need those Michael Koors! I have to check for them tomorrow (it will be my Birthday and they will be a present to myself:)! I love shoes and handbags and love splurging on both.
Great finds V! I got the same AT petal top this weekend! So cute! I was waiting for another 40% sale. There is no point of paying full price anymore. There is some type of sale every week and I think that is part of my shopping problem.
Have a great night!
A
[email protected] says
A- see, that's the thing. I always get so many coupons and sales to lure me in and i think to myself…I'd be CRAZY not to take advantage of this huge discount. So then I feel like if it's 40% off for 2 days only i have to shop those days so that I don't have to pay full price for the items. Ack! damn marketing of all of those stores!
MsHark says
Love the MK sandals!
Different post, but can't believe your hubby let you take a picture of his outfit and post it. LOL!
And the Lacie looks exactly like hanky pankies, which are the most comfy thongs ever. I wonder how they will hold up in comparison.
[email protected] says
MsHark- My hubby was a little tipsy when he said he wanted to be on the blog. But in all seriousness, he is so cute and supportive of my blogging, he's awesome.
I have never worn the hanky pankys, but I wouldn't spend that much on undies I don't think. I have a few pairs already and they have held up great 🙂
Lulu says
Love the MK shoes! I love that cream top you got at F21!I saw that shirt online and I've been planning on going in and buying it!
SweetTea says
Those Michael Kors shoes are perfect! 🙂
I have tons of shoes but find that I wear the same ones over and over–and they are always the ones that are stylish yet comfy! Wedges are my go to shoes and boots for dressing up…for everyday wear in the summer/spring I live in my Havaianas flip flops!
Cassie says
I love the lacies. They're the most comfortable things in the world. And that shirt is adorable. Ruffles are super cute, and even if they went out of style, I think you'll always be able to pull them off.
Janine says
I think I'm the only person that doesn't really care for the lacie panties. I have 3 of them. I don't think they are that comfortable. 🙁
Yes, I have a lot of shoes but I wear the sames ones over and over. I don't have a lot of purses. I use the same one every day.
and I second the fact if you one day have a girl that shopping will get worse. I'm constantly buying my daughter outfits. 🙂
*maja* says
OMG – V! Love the inside of the JS shoes! For some reason – its those details that always get me! Its why I love Christian Louboutins – the attn to detail and making the sole a signature look.
I am with you on not having many shoes or bags. I don't know why because I love them, but…hmmm…maybe its money, Anytime I see a pair of shoes/boots that I love they're the most expensive pair in the store 🙁
ALSO, the lace underwear-I am OBSESSED WITH! I swear to god I have over 50 pairs lol – too much information? They are just perfect!
loves
maja
Taryn says
I own waaaaayyyyy too many shoes. I will be moving soon so I recently downsized my closet and got rid of about 10 pairs of shoes…and still have about 25 pairs! Sick. I am still jealous of your Michael Kors heels though!
Swing by my blog when you get a chance, I left you a present 🙂
Anonymous says
I'm a handbag whore for sure. I actually get breathless when I see something I really like. At this point in my life I am able to buy designer bags so that's what I splurge on. I don't have many everyday bags (I would if I could!) but I have many, many clutches. I'm slightly obsessed with clutches and love to have lots in pretty colors.
You know what I've done that's helped me with my shopping? At the beginning of each season (spring/summer and fall/winter) I make a list of all the things I think I'll want/need and how much I expect to pay for them. For example I love dresses and have decided I need 5 for this season. So my line item is 5 dresses and I put a budget on them.
I read tons of fashion mags and am a huge online shopper so as I find things I like, I'll write them down so I can see how they fit in the budget. As I buy things, I cross them off the list and deduct from the budget for that line item. If I end up coming in under budget in one category, I add it to another category. I'm not really strict with the budget but it gives me a good guideline to go by. And making a list helps me organize my thoughts so I end up with stuff that I love and that's practical for my wardrobe.
[email protected] says
anon- that is a FAB idea! I am not great at budgeting, but something I do ask myself before buying is "when can i wear this, what does it go with, and do I really love it?"
I usually only buy things I really truly love, which helps.
I also try things on that ae a bit pricey to see how they fit, and return to the store when they have a sale so I can get the item for much less. I am definitely willing to wait for a great thing!
JustinsMami says
Ok, the last dozen or so posts you've done have been making me think to myself "wtf, really?" and I say this only because I blog too but because I can get super busy during the week I tend to write posts in advance and then schedule them…point is – you have been posting about EVERYTHING I have as a saved post 1) the L'Oreal mascara — um, to DIE for it is amazing and the best drug store beauty product I have EVER purchased, 2) the Lacie from VS has been the greatest discovery for me since i dunno what – and I totally am with you on the cheekie note (thong is over) but alas, lacie, thong makes that a myth now 🙂 whew, this is just too funny,and because today is the start of a new motivational move forward for me I plan to get some great workout clothes from LuLu's so thanks for the rec.
S says
I smiled when I saw that you bought another ruffled shirt. I, too, love this ruffle craze and hope it sticks around.
Love the MK zipper shoes. I'm so surprised more blogs/magazines haven't mentioned zippers being a big trend into summer because I'm still seeing them everywhere (and loving them).
I usually buy one more expensive ($400-600) bag per year but am finding that I can't justify spending a hefty amount on a non-basic bag, but am pretty set on basics. I'm waiting to fall in love with a bag and haven't yet.
I don't have a ton of shoes either – I have a wide foot and can't buy all the cute shoes. If I had a normal foot, I would be a shoe addict I'm sure. I also work in a casual office and think I'd get the side-eye from my coworkers if I showed up in heels.
Southern Chic says
I agree with ANON- I make a list every season of things I need to replace and want to update my wardrobe and try very hard to stick to that list. A few years ago I was shopping every week (which is how I grew up- my mom and I would go shopping all the time when I was younger- I blame her for my addiction) but I decided to cut back and spend time on other hobbies (making jewelry, landscaping our yard, cooking) and I am so glad I did. It is funny how women can turn shopping into a hobby or a social event- I know I am guilty of spending way too much time at the mall :).
Beautygirl24 says
I love absolutely everything you picked out! The shoes (both pairs) are really sexy!
I know what you mean about shopping though. I swear I need to stop as well. Its so darn hard. But We have to at least try right?